Is social loneliness really that unhealthy? It's fine!

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  I guess I'm the kind of person who's particularly boring, a bit socially isolated. I don't really enjoy interacting with people in real life; I prefer online life. I only have one or two true friends, scattered all over the world, because we can't all be in the same place as we grow up.

  Someone once asked me, "Don't you think this kind of life is a bit unhealthy?" I think it's fine; as long as I'm comfortable, that's enough. I'm a bit disillusioned with friends in real life, but the internet makes me feel very safe.

  I'm not inclined to question others, nor am I particularly good at being understanding, so I don't have the gossipy, aggressive, or clingy nature of trolls.

  I especially hope that a new generation grows up, and everyone is online every day like me, learning, working, and growing through the internet. People can share interesting projects, freely choose the life they want, and make money and life detached from those millennia-old earthly customs. Maybe blockchain will only become valuable then…

  I think that day will come eventually, because earthly life is just too inefficient and too complicated. People are wary of each other the moment they meet, hurting, attacking, comparing themselves to others, like wild animals, capable of anything.

  Online, those who want to live a pure life can indeed live a pure life, closer to their inner selves. Everyone can find a community. Socially isolated individuals like myself can write articles to vent, learn from vertical communities or websites, work on projects, explore interesting things, and then pursue them. My most fulfilling moments are after focusing on my work.

  Perhaps pragmatism is just an excuse to mask loneliness and to those who don't understand the internet. Claims that the internet is lucrative can't compare to my genuine enjoyment of being online. I'm happy to treat the virtual world as reality in my thinking, work, and life. Fun is more important than anything else. I don't want a life of exhaustion, constant arguments, more worries than troubles, insomnia, constipation, and then a "healthy life" of drinking and eating with friends. Living a life constantly

  confined to the circles of morality, ideals, marriage, housing, and interpersonal relationships is too tiring; it's just a media topic and a trap.

  Those who create discussions about finance, stocks, morality, marriage, etc., are mostly people driving luxury cars and driving novels. They're also free spirits when it comes to projects. It's just ordinary people on the ground who are seriously competing with their peers, their jobs, and various issues like housing, transportation, and healthcare. Are you a superman? No, just mediocre and mentally exhausting.

  Friends, exchanging ideas, learning, freedom, entrepreneurship, initiative, prospects, housing, internet technology… actually, the internet still enriches my life quite a bit. Is it unhealthy? I think it's much healthier and more relaxed than life on the ground. I

  can't say I love life on the ground that much, but I still love online life. I'm positive, ambitious, and healthy; at worst, I've read some ambiguous scenes in romance novels.

  Completely clueless about social interactions? Maybe social interactions have changed a lot already :)


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